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Pamela Whitaker donated to Chatham-Kent Hospice Foundation
Tuesday, October 16, 2018
Dear Scott and Family
Our deepest condolences on your loss.
I feel blessed to have met you both.
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Lillian Addley-Darel posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 4, 2018
Dear Scott and family:
So very sorry to hear of Pam's passing. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. Sure you will cherish the lovely memories she has left with you.
Lillian
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Donald and Margaret Stirling posted a condolence
Sunday, September 2, 2018
Scott, Kerry, and Nikki,
It is with great sadness that we heard of the passing of Pam. Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. Pam was such a great, loving person and we know all of you will miss her dearly.
Sincerely,
Marg, Don, and family
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Nancy & Don Canning & family posted a condolence
Sunday, September 2, 2018
Dear Scott, Kerry, Nikki & all the McKinlay & Luckham Families...
I will always remember Pam as the most beautiful soul - very patient, kind, caring, witty, wise & understanding. She will be a ‘tough act to follow’ & has left you all such great memories to share forever. Keeping you all close in our hearts, thoughts & prayers. Take good care of each other. xo
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Andrea Stepnosky posted a condolence
Sunday, September 2, 2018
Scott,Kerry,Nikki and the entire McKinlay family,
My deepest condolences to you all. I wish you all strength during this difficult time.
Andrea Stepnosky
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David Wickware donated to Chatham-Kent Hospice Foundation
Saturday, September 1, 2018
With love The McKinlay Clan
JoAnn, Martha & David, Jim & Mary, Margot & Gord, Janet & Joe
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Heather and Gerald Secord posted a condolence
Friday, August 31, 2018
Scott and family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time.
Gerald and Heather Secord
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Janine, Michael and Ginger Chute lit a candle
Thursday, August 30, 2018
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Janine, Michael and Ginger Chute posted a condolence
Thursday, August 30, 2018
Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. Pam was a great lady and we were blessed to meet her when we picked up our beautiful puppy Ginger. Ginger has been a great addition to our family and still gives us so much joy. I often think of Pam, she will be missed by many.
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Tim & Zofe Roberts posted a condolence
Thursday, August 30, 2018
Scott,Kerry & Nikki,
Sending your our deepest sympathy at this so difficult time. May God's mercy & grace flow upon you to comfort & console you as you mourn for the one you loved so dearly. May she rest in peace and her legacy live on through your lives.
Zofe & Tim Roberts
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Ford & Anne Keillor posted a condolence
Thursday, August 30, 2018
Scott
Treasure all the special memories and family moments in your heart forever.
Thinking of you and your family
Ford & Anne Keillor
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John & Sonia Simpson posted a condolence
Thursday, August 30, 2018
Dear Scott, Kerry, Nikki & families,
John & I would like to send our deepest condolences to your families. What a great loss for all of you. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
John & Sonia
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Tom & Susan Hebblethwaite posted a condolence
Thursday, August 30, 2018
Our sincere sympathy, Scott & family. You are in our prayers.
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Leslie Pont posted a condolence
Thursday, August 30, 2018
I am so very sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.
Leslie
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Richard and Debbie Malott posted a condolence
Thursday, August 30, 2018
Dear Scott and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss.
Pam was always a very inviting soul when we attended your annual Pig roasts.
Please know you are in are prayers.
Richard, Debbie and Amanda Malott
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Susan Sparling Manuel posted a condolence
Thursday, August 30, 2018
Dear Scott, Kerry, Nikki, Rob and family,
My sincere condolences in the loss of this special and lovely lady. I have many good memories of sharing with you in education in years gone by and understand the loss of a dear spouse, mother and sister in law. May you find strength and comfort in all your memories together. Hugs and prayers for the days ahead.
Susan Sparling Manuel
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Rob and Mary Taylor lit a candle
Wednesday, August 29, 2018
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Rob and Mary Taylor posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 29, 2018
Dear Scott and Family: Our sincere condolences and deepest sympathy. We have many fond memories of our times together which we will always remember and forever cherish. With much love,
Rob, Mary and Family
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Alex and Sheila Fleming posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 29, 2018
Our deepest sympathy to you, Scott, and your girls. You are all in our prayers.
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Larry & Patricia Rumble posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 29, 2018
Please accept our sincere sympathy in the passing of Pam. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you at this very difficult time.
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Debbie Plourde posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 29, 2018
Dear Scott and family. Our deepest sympathy to all of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad time.
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Bev (Burrell) Moulton posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 29, 2018
My utmost sincere condolences to all the Luckham and McKinlay families.
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David & Martha Wickware posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 29, 2018
Scott, Kerry & Nikki,
We are so sad,we will miss Pam so very much.
Sending you warm hugs and all our love and support.
David & Martha
Meghan, Matthew & Ryan
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Carolyn Howes posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 29, 2018
Scott and family, I was sorry to learn of your loss. Pam always had a smile for us whenever she came into the bank.
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Brenda St Denis (Grift) posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 29, 2018
I am so sorry to hear of Pam's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you Scott and family.
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David & Valerie Towsley posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 29, 2018
We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
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Rose and Flo Kuchynski posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 29, 2018
Dear Scott and family, Our sympathies to you all on the loss of Pam. She was a lovely person and will be missed by many.
We are thinking of you at this sad time. Sincerely, Rose and Flo
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Norma Langstaff posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 29, 2018
Dear Scott, Kerry and Nikki, I am saddened by the news of Pam's passing. Praying for comfort for you as you celebrate her life and grieve your loss at her passing.
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Sharon and Mike Jochim posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Dear Scott, Kerry, Nikki and family.
Our deepest condolences on the loss of your bride (as you would always call Pam when you called work looking for her) mother, sister, aunt and friend. We are so thankful we were able to visit with Pam at the hospice before we left on our vacation. It was a very special time, filled with laughter and love. I will treasure the book and picture Pam gave me. The picture is hung in our office that we shared for many years.
My journey started with Pam when I started working for Ed and Dan 12 years ago. Although we didn't start out sharing an office, a year later I moved in and our journey truly began. We quickly learnt that we had so much in common. We were both Virgos so our work ethics were so similar and thankfully so as we worked in a small space together. I teased her that I would put Les Nesman tape up, so her many files all over her desk would not spill over onto my side. We discovered our love of dogs and that we both showed dogs many years ago. Pam supported the rescue I volunteer for with every fundraiser we had. I would share her puppy posts and one day my friend adopted one of her Lakeland Terriers Ginger. Our adventures did not end in the workplace. We both signed up for yoga, yes we were both terrible at it, but laughed as we would try and balance, falling into each other and onto the floor. We took golf lessons at the Ridgetown Golf Course, wasn't one of our finest moments, but we had fun. We would go for lunch together every Friday to Stephens Restaurant, it was our thing. Pam loved to watch Figure Skating and our last outing was Stars on Ice in London. We had purchased the tickets just after Christmas and even though Pam wasnt feeling the greatest, off we went. I was the driver and she my co-pilot and oh the smile on her face as we watched Scott and Tessa and the rest of the stars skate. We had so many adventures together those of which I will treasure forever.
Pam was my friend both inside the office and out. A pot of coffee was always ready for us to share. If she wasn't in the office by a certain time, I would worry and she knew it, so she would text me to let me know so I wouldn't worry. We would laugh during the good times and be each other's rock during the sad times.
Pam touches not only my life but so many in her own "Pam" way. May the memories I shared bring you some comfort and a smile knowing just how much she touched my life.
As Mike and I won't be able to be there as we are out of the county, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. ..xo
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Lisa Gilbert posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
My condolences go out to you, Dawn, Randy and family. I know it has been a tough time for all of you, and I am sure you are relieved that Pam has been released. It still does not make the sorrow any less. I am hoping that, knowing that others share your pain, might make yours easier to bear.
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Pam Slade posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
I'm very sorry for your loss. Thinking and praying for your family.
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Peter Graham and family posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Scott, Kerry and Nikki.
We wish there was some way to make these next days easier.
Your friends and family won't need to remind you of the love Pam shared with you both, as her daughters, and Scott, as your wife for all these past years.
KInd of ironic that I was at Guelph with Pam but didn't get to meet her until I met you, Scott, and the "McKinlay clan". She was an amazing lady.
Hopefully, you will take comfort in the fact that you did everything in your power, to make these last few months the best possible for Pam.
We will all miss Pam terribly, without a doubt. However, we do have you 3 and we'll love you forever and help you get through this.
Love always.
Pete, Mel, Brittany and Renee.
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Cathy Schneider posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.
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Marlee Robinson posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Dear Scott and family.
How sad that Pam has passed to another life. She did extraordinary things while she was here (professional Bull riding?!?). I especially remember her generous welcome at your annual pig roasts.
Condolences
Marlee
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Alysson Storey & Dan Davidson posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Scott and family,
We are very sorry to hear of the loss of Pamela. You are all in our thoughts. We are heartened to learn Hospice was a support to Pamela in her final days. Sending you our deepest sympathies.
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Linda & Peter Hebblethwaite posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Scott and Family,
Sincere condolences to the McKINLAY family in the passing of Pam.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
May you cherish the many happy memories you shared in the difficult days ahead.
Sincerely.
Linda & Peter.
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Lori & Lance Birrell posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
So sorry for your loss Scotty and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
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Brian and Janice Vowles donated to Chatham-Kent Hospice Foundation
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
With deepest sympathy
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Martha (Mitton) and Stew DeVreker posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Scott and family,
I am so very sorry to learn of Pam's passing. I have many wonderful memories of public school days with Pam. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.
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Brian and Janice Vowles posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Our deepest sympathy to Scott and his family. Pam was a very special lady who will be sorely missed by all who knew her. Regretfully we are in Nashville this week and will not be able to attend the funeral. You are all in our thoughts and prayers,
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Debora Bailey posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
I am truly sorry for your loss, please accept my sincere condolences. I hope the McKinlay family find comfort and strength in Jesus promise along with our heavenly father Jehovah of the earthly resurrection found at John 5:28, 29, when death will be eliminated forever found at Revelations 21:4. Truly, what a glorious and almost unbelievable day that will be! It's a reality though for God cannot lie!
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Bob and Janice Ingram posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Scott and family. Our sincere condolences goes out to you and your family. Pam was a great friend and co-worker. We shared many laughs and good times over the years and those memories will always be with us. She was an inspiration to everyone. So sorry we cannot be there as we are out of the country. Hope to get together with you when we get back.
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Stan & Edna Brien posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Sincere and heartfelt condolences from Stan & Edna Brien. Its hard to put into words how we feel at this most difficult time. I think the last paragraph of the obituary says it best.
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Catherine Moore posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Scott and family, We were sorry to learn of Pam’s passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Catherine and Dani
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Sean Beane donated to Chatham-Kent Hospice Foundation
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
In Memory of Pam McKinlay, Chatham-Kent Hospice Foundation, thank you for your support services
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Joyce Smith posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Scott & Family: I was so sorry to hear of Pam's passing. She was such a kind wonderful lady. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family during this difficult and sad time.
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Bill and Marg Shillington posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Our thoughts are with your family at this time I am sure that it is comforting to know that she received the most compassionate care from the CK Hospice in her final days
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Charlie and Sylvia McDonell posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Scott and Family. So sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. Our prayers are with you. Charlie and Sylvia
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Kim and Fern Caron posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Scott, Kerry and Nikki:
We hope that happy memories will help comfort you during this very difficult time. Sending hugs of support.
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Janet (Smith) and Bryan Pinder posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Scott and family, So very sorry for your great loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May wonderful memories sustain you.
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Doug and Lorie Cooper posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Scott and family we are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
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Ron & Sandra Fysh posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Scott and family - our sincere condolences on your loss. May your wonderful memories help during the difficult days ahead. Thinking of you.
Ron & Sandra
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Pam Graham and family posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Dear Scott and girls,
While I believe I only met Pam once or twice in my life, Peter has shared stories about your family and Pammy many times. Whether he was talking about the dogs (we all know Travis), or your annual pig roast, I always enjoyed hearing how you and Pammy were enjoying your life. Pam was such a warm, authentic person that I felt like I was a friend. I wished I had known her better.
Please accept my families condolences, Scott, at this difficult and hurtful time in your life. You have been and will continue to be in our throughts and prayers. May Pammy rest in the peace that she so deserves.
Hugs, Pam and family.
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Mike and Barb Ferren posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Our deepest sympathies to the family.
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Art and Sharon Alliet posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 28, 2018
Sending our deepest sympathy to all of your family.
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Robert and Karen (Kirkwood) Whyte posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Sending our deepest condolences, Scott. Much too young!
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Tony and Jean Sommerdyk posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Thinking of you and praying for you. Our deepest sympathy.
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Rick and Karen Squire posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Our sincere condolences to you Scott and family.
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Fred and Cheryl Galbraith posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Dear Scott and Family: We are very sorry to hear of your loss. May you find strength for the difficult days ahead and comfort and peace in your cherished memories of Pam.
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Wilhelmina Waters posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
I am so sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. My deepest sympathies Scott to you and your family.
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Ross and Lynda Goldhawk posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Our sincere condolences at this difficult time.
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Paul Kelly posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Scott and all the family so sorry for your loss!
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Laura Bosence posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Sorry for your loss and my prayers to the family; may you have some peace and good memories of your mom.
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Shannon Shillington posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
My condolences Scott to you and your family, Pam was a lovely person and will be dearly missed. You are all in my thoughts and prayers
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Terry and Darcie Holmes posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
So sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers for strength and peace.
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Fred & Kaye Lee posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Dear Scott, Kerri and Nikki
Our hearts go out to you. You have many happy memories to help you through this sad time. With heartfelt sympathy.
Fred & Kaye
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Cindy Devereux posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
So sorry to hear of your loss Scott and family.
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Edy Marlatt & J C Goodreau posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
We were saddened to hear about Pam's passing. We are sending our condolences at this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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Alan Meredith and family posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
All the love from my family to yours. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
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Paul and Karen Devereux posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time! May you get strength from the love and comfort of family and friends.
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Sheena & Jim Ladouceur posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Dear Scott, Kerry and Nikki our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Linda and Wayne Schnabel posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Scott and family...so sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. May cherished memories bring you comfort.
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Jane Bryce & Don Brillinger posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Dear Scott, Kerry and Nikki. Please accept our Deepest Sympathies.
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Allison Kloostra posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Our deepest condolences to all of you. Your memories will comfort you during this time and carry you forward each day ahead. Allison, Ken, Keaton and Archer Kloostra.
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Michelle & Jason Eberle posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Thinking of your wonderful Family Scotty...Love the Eberle’s.
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Fran Black/Morris Galick posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Pam epitomized kindness and genuineness in a humble, unassuming way. We are so sorry for your loss.
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McLarty Family posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Pam was a lovely lady, taken much too soon. Our sincere sympathy to all of the McKinlay family
We are sorry that we are away and not able to visit funeral home.
Take care
Ken, Sue and family.
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Dave, Danielle, Lyla and Jordi posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Kerry and Family,
We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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Karen & Julian Pynenbrouck posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Scott & family, we are sorry to hear of your loss. Pam was a wonderful person and will be remembered as such.
Julian & Karen (Carter) Pynenbrouck
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Larry and Heather Smyth posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Scott and Family,
Our thoughts are with you and your family during this sorrowful time. God Bless!
Larry and Heather Smyth
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Brian and Lis Hoskins and family. posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Very sorry for your loss. Xxo. Love Brian and Lis Hoskins and family!!
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Dianne Morden posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, August 27, 2018
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Dianne Morden lit a candle
Monday, August 27, 2018
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Sending you comfort....
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Kevin and Tara Boersma posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Scott,
Our condolences to you and your family. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
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Wes and Michelle Roelofs posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Our condolences to your family. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Wes and Michelle Roelofs
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Rebecca and Scott Malott posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
We are so sad to hear of the passing of Pamela. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Scott, Nikki, Kerry, all family members and friends during this sad time. .... Rebecca and Scott Malott
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Bill & Cindy Carnie posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2018
Scott, Kerry & Nikki, Sandy, Rob, Mary Margaret, Ian, Mary and families, Mike, Randy and families. I am struggling for words in how to express my sincere condolences on the passing of your wife and best friend, you mother, your sister, your aunt. Pam was one of those lights that touched so many lives, brightening the day of everyone with her easy smile and her caring personality. She will be dearly missed by everyone. You are all in our prayers at this your time of extreme sorrow. God bless you all. Bill & Cindy Carnie
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Monday, August 27, 2018
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