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Rob Reid and Kyla Reid and family pledged to donate to Chatham-Kent 4-H Association
Tuesday, September 22, 2020
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Tuesday, September 22, 2020
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Joan and Gary Cofell lit a candle
Tuesday, September 22, 2020
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We've lost siblings, parents and a child - we feel your pain and sorrow! Tori was a lovely and loving lady who will be sorely missed. I remember when the Hainers moved to Ridgetown and attended our church. Tori was in our youth group and always had a smile! The last time I saw the twins was in our Highgate church for their baptism along with my grandson, Charlie as well as others as Rev. Jim Carr was moving and we had no idea when we would have a new priest. Tori and I always asked how each other's kids were - Nathan and Rachael were going through major issues at the same time. So nice to see these beautiful photos and videos. May God give you all the strength you need to get through this - just remember, Tori is only a dream away. Heaven has another Angel. Peace and Blessings!
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Jane Erickson posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, September 21, 2020
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Sending sympathy sympathy to the entire Carnegie family and please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Bob, Diane and Jane Erickson
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Brenda & Rob Koldyk lit a candle
Monday, September 21, 2020
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Dear Dennis & Family:
Our deepest sympathies to you and your family on the loss of Tori. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Brenda & Rob Koldyk
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Ernie and Annette Barber posted a condolence
Saturday, September 19, 2020
Dennis and family,
Our deepest sympathy to you on the loss of your loved one.
Cherish the fond memories.
Ernie & Annette Barber
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Marty and Marcia Vermey lit a candle
Saturday, September 19, 2020
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Dear Dennis, Rachel, Aidan and Douglas
We would like to express our heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your wife and mother. Tori was a lovely woman and will be missed by all. It is hard to lose someone so close but cherish those beautiful memories you have of her knowing that she has made this world a better place. May God bless you and give you strength during this difficult time.
Marty, Marcia, Matthew, Andrew and Gregory Vermey
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Jim & Deb Hawkins posted a condolence
Saturday, September 19, 2020
Our condolences to Dennis, Rachel, Aiden and Douglas on the loss of your wife and Mother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time sorry we are unable to attend the service today.
Jim and Deb Hawkins and family
Cassie-Jo Paine-Pavey posted a condolence
Saturday, September 19, 2020
Our sincere condolences Dennis to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and we are sending you strength at this time. Cherish those wonderful memories.
Tyler and Cassie-Jo Pavey
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Harold & Allison Stirling posted a condolence
Friday, September 18, 2020
We were deeply saddened to hear the news of Tori's passing. She was a lovely lady. Tori took wonderful photos of our children when they were babies and are still my favourite photos of the kids. Please accept our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Carnegie Family at this very difficult time.
Harold, Allison, Brandon & Alex Stirling
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Deena McBrien posted a condolence
Friday, September 18, 2020
Dear Dennis & Family,
Our deepest sympathies to you and your family on the loss of Tori. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Donna Simpson & Family
Beth McBrien & Family
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Garth and Sue McDowell posted a condolence
Friday, September 18, 2020
Garth and I were so very sorry to hear of Tori's passing. She was such a friendly and outgoing person and we always enjoyed talking with her. Sending our sincerest condolences to Denny and his family and, also, to Ed and Claire and their family and Dennis and Sandy and their family.
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Larry & Patricia Rumble posted a condolence
Thursday, September 17, 2020
Denny, Rachel, Douglas, Aiden & family -
Please accept our sincere sympathy in the passing of Tori, we have known her since she started grade school and always enjoyed her company. She will be missed by all who knew her, our thoughts and prayers are with each of you during this very difficult time. May the peace that comes from the memories of love shared comfort and strengthen you both now and into the future.
Larry & Patricia Rumble
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saimafjwu@yahoo.com posted a condolence
Thursday, September 17, 2020
Our deepest condolences to the Hainer family, our prayers are with your family during this hard time. Tori was more than an employee, she was a friend. She had a contagious smile and her energy lit up the room. She was kind and compassionate to everyone she met, and an overall amazing person to know. She will be deeply missed.
Condolences from Muhammad and Saima’s family.
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Jenny Tscharke posted a condolence
Thursday, September 17, 2020
I've known the Hainer family ever since I can remember. I loved babysitting Tori and Heather many years ago, and was later fortunate enough to be one of her children's teachers! Our deepest sympathies go to all of you - cherish your memories always.
Jenny and Jean Tscharke and family
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Nancy DeBruyn posted a condolence
Thursday, September 17, 2020
Our deepest sympathy to Dennis, Rachel, Aidan and Douglas. Rest in peace Tori.
Martin and Nancy DeBruyn
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Chris Deprez posted a condolence
Thursday, September 17, 2020
We would like to express our deepest sympathy to Dennis, Rachel, Aidan, and Douglas. Very sorry to hear of Tori's passing. Thinking of you all during this difficult time. Chris & JoLynn Deprez
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Fred and Cheryl Galbraith posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 16, 2020
Our heartfelt and sincere sympathy is going out to the Hainer-Carnegie Families in the loss of Your Dear Tori. Her courage was an inspiration to all. May you be comforted by beautiful memories and Blessed with strength and peace in the coming times.
Fred and Cheryl Galbraith
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Reade & Sherrie Spence posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 16, 2020
To the family of Tori,
Tori was a warrior! Her optimism and positivity shone through each time we talked. Your memories will keep you strong! Our deepest sympathy. Reade & Sherrie Spence
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Janet Clark posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 16, 2020
Our families were connected in a big way many years ago when Tori baby sat our kids. We always had good heart to heart chats and she loved our kids like they were her own. That's not something you forget. We hadn't seen much of each other in the past few years, but when we did connect, either in town or on facebook, it was like old times. My heart goes out to all her family as you walk this difficult journey without her. She will be missed.
With deepest sympathy,
Jim & Janet Clark
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Steve and Brenda Tremblay lit a candle
Wednesday, September 16, 2020
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Dear Dennis, Rachel, Aidan, Douglas and family.
We would like to express our deepest sympathy in the loss of a wife, mother, daughter, sister.
Those we love dont go away, they walk beside us everyday, unseen , unheard but always near, still loved , still missed and held so dear.
Thinking of you all during this difficult time
Steve, Brenda, Alicia, Colton Tremblay
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Stan & Edna Brien posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 16, 2020
Expressing our deepest sympathy to Dennis and the Carnegie family.
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Susan McGeachy-Foran posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
My sincerest sympathy on the passing of Tori. We did Pampered Chef together a while ago and last summer we able to catch up. She beamed when she talked about her kiddos and what they were up to-true Tori style. Always smiling. May all those great memories be of comfort-You are in my thoughts Take Care. Sue McGeachy-Foran
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Sherry lit a candle
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
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So sorry for your loss my prayers and thoughts r with u and your family at this time
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Helen Lehmann posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
Dennis and family,
My sympathy to you and your families upon reading of Tori's passing.
Please know that others share in your grief.
Helen Lehmann
Susan Jane posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
My deepest sympathy to the Carnegie family, and Claire, Ed, and Heather Hainer, on the loss of Tori.
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Andrea Brown posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
Dennis and family,
So very sorry to hear of Tori’s passing. My thoughts are with you all at this challenging time. May your memories bring you comfort and strength. God bless you all.
Andrea & Ray
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Barb McKay posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
Sending our Condolences to Carnegie & Hainer Families. Tori was such a Beautiful & Positive Lady. Always smiling & happy to be around. We have know Tori for over 40 years through school & church. She always made everyone feel welcomed no matter where we were or what we were doing. A True Friend & Inspiration to all who knew her.
Ruth (McKay) Campbell, Tammy (McKay) Martin & Barb McKay & Families
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Gayle Shantz posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
Denny, Rachel, Douglas & Aidan
Our deepest condolences on the passing of Tori. As cousins go you must know you guys are up there in our top 10 favorites! We loved seeing you guys at the reunions and especially Tori's smile and kindness and how she'd speak her mind. She will be missed so much by so many. The video tribute was so touching and full of love and it was wonderful to see your grown up family. Tori will be with us all in the great memories we all hold dear. Loving thoughts of sympathy to both families at this sad time.
Hugs to all, Gayle & Roger Shantz
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Ralph & Mary Lou Ford posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
Dennis & Family
Ed & Claire Hainer
Sending our sympathy to you
Ralph & Mary Lou Ford
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Fred and Kaye Lee posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
Dennis and family
We are so very sorry for your loss. May happy memories help you through this sad time.
Fred and Kaye
Tracy Tiffin lit a candle
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
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Denny - so sorry to hear of your wife's passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. Hugs! Tracy Tiffin
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Pat Tiffin lit a candle
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
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Sandy and Dennis and Family
So sorry for the loss of Tori. No easy days ahead, however treasure your moments in time.
Hugs Pat and Grant
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Pat Tiffin posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
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Denny and Family
So sorry for the loss of Tori, treasure all your fun memories and your video was a beautiful tribute to her.
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Jody Hills posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
So sorry to hear. Many memories with the kids, Dennis and Tori while our kids were in school together. She was a very caring and giving woman that will be missed. Thinking of all of you.
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David Wake lit a candle
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
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Joyce Smith posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
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Dennis, Rachel, Aiden, Douglas & all of the Hainer & Carnegie Family:
I was so sorry to hear of Tori's passing. She was such a wonderful kind lady who always took time to have a little chit chat with me whenever I met her out and about. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult and sad time.
Wendy & Pat McGuire posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
So very sorry for your Loss to All. Very much in our prayers.
Wendy, Pat, Kyle & Elizabeth McGuire.
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delma coll posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
My condolences to you dennis and your families.goodbyes my friend. we will missed you in my heart. take care.from delma, jennifer ,ronald, stuart, marion coll
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Lori Jones posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
It breaks my heart to hear of Tori’s passing. She was very special to a lot of people. I will be praying for you as you move forward in the days ahead.
Lori (Apthorp) Jones
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Arend and Willadale Smid posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
We are so sorry to read about Tori's passing. She was our sons' favourite babysitter many years ago. May you find comfort, peace and strength in the many memories you have of her.
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Jennifer Hainer posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
We are so sorry for your loss to the Family Jennifer and Patrick Hainer
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Kelli DeCook posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
So sorry to hear of Toris passing. May you find comfort in the memories you shared and know you are in the thoughts and prayers of many.
Sincere sympathy
Kevin and Kelli DeCook
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Stephen and Krista Shaw lit a candle
Monday, September 14, 2020
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Denny, my heart goes out to you and the kids. May your memories comfort you all. You are in our prayers.
Krista, Stephen, Brandon and Allison Shaw
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Nicole Palmer lit a candle
Monday, September 14, 2020
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So sorry for your loss. Love you guys bunches hugs, love and prayers your way.
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Glenda & Jim Yule posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
To all of Tori’s family,
I was very sorry to hear of Tori’s passing. Sending sincere sympathy to all of you at this sad time. The video was a beautiful tribute to a caring, friendly & wonderful lady.
Glenda & Jim Yule
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Chuck and Brenda Guyitt posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
Dennis and family Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family on hearing of Tori’s passing. May the many memories you have shared bring you love and peace at this difficult time. Chuck and Brenda Guyitt
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Mike and Sandy Dotterman posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
We are sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
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Bonnie & Ray Fenton posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
Hainer-Carnegie Families
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Our sincere condolences
Hugs
Bonnie & Ray Fenton
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Jennifer posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
We are so very sorry for your family's loss. Flimsy words at such a painful time. She was such a warm and friendly person. She will be greatly missed.
The Howson family (Jennifer,James, Sara, Christy and Jack )
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Martha Crow posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
So so sorry to hear of Tori's passing.....condolences to the family! Thoughts and prayers go out to her family!
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Pat Taylor posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
We are deeply sorry to hear about Tori. She was such a kind & loving person. Always a smile to warm your heart.
Our deepest sympathy to all her family members.
Doug & Pat
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Melissa Garton posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
So very sorry for your loss. My thoughts go out to her entire family
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Carol and Laddie Spiruda posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
Dennis and family. Our sincere sympathy.
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Brad & Susan Smith & Family posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
So very sorry to hear about Tori's passing.
Our many thoughts of sympathy and prayers are with the entire family.
May your many cherished memories ease the tremendous sorrow.
RIP Tori.
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Kevin and Sharon Gervais posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, September 14, 2020
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Dear Dennis and Family: Kevin and I are saddened to hear of the passing of Tori.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sending Love, Light and Energy at this very difficult time.
Kevin and Sharon Gervais
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Linda and Wayne Schnabel posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
Sincere condolences on the loss of Tori. She was a kind and warm wife, mother and a friend to many. Treasure all your memories.
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Tracy Henry posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
Dennis and family,
I am so sorry to hear about Tori's passing. The love video was absolutely beautiful. Hold this close and it will help you through this very sad time.
Sincerely Tracy Henry
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Lynda and Randy Ross posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
We are so sorry to hear of your great loss. Our condolences to the family.
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Dianna posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
Dennis and family, I'm sorry to hear about your wife. My heart felt sympathy on your loss. Dianna
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Jane Stennett lit a candle
Monday, September 14, 2020
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Claire, Ed and family; I am very sorry for your great loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Jane Stennett
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Marion Garrod & Denise Graham posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
We are so sorry for your loss.
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Marion Depuydt posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
So sorry for your loss, Dennis & family. You are in my prayers. I am sure you will have lots of happy memories to get you through this sad time.
My sympathy, Marion Depuydt
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Violet posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
Dennis and family. I must say that video was the most beautiful and heartbreaking tribute to Torri. I am so very sorry you have to be going through this. I hope all those wonderful memories give you comfort. Violet Popoff
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Nancy Shabley posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
My sincere sympathy to Ed, Claire and the entire Carnegie family. Such a shock. Cherish the happy memories and let them help you get through this very sad time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Rick and Nancy Shabley
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Nancy Houston lit a candle
Monday, September 14, 2020
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Thinking of you...may you find comfort in your cherished memories at this time of sadness.
Tom and Nancy Houston
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Rita Carnegie Saunders posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
My Sincere sympathy to Dennis, Rachel, Aiden, Douglas and family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love Rita
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Jane & Ron Gelderland posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, September 14, 2020
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Very Sorry for your loss.
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Barbara Myslik posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, September 14, 2020
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Please accept my sincere sympathy and prayers for your family. Your wife/Mom was an amazing person and I will always remember her as a kind and honest person.
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Joanne Geddes lit a candle
Monday, September 14, 2020
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I remember Tori so well as a young girl from The Church of the Advent. My sincere sympathy to Ed, Claire and Tori’s husband and children. The video is such a wonderful tribute and a treasure for her family. Joanne Geddes
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Rosemary and Craig Mitton lit a candle
Monday, September 14, 2020
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We will so miss Tori and hold on tightly to the optimism and enthusiasm for life that she shared. She showed me the starburst , antique pin, which she treasures and had long waited for. It's so nice to see her wearing it in your pictures. We will treasure her memory. Rosemary and Craig
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Brian Rose posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
My condolences to the Carnegie family.
Brian Rose (former resident of Rose Beach Line)
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Michelle Manninger posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
Please accept my deepest condolences for your family’s loss My heart and prayers go out to you and your family at this difficult time.
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John & Janice Wright posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
Sending hugs to the family during this difficult time. We enjoyed her time with us at Kiwanis and her community work was treasured. She will live on in your hearts & memories.
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Penny Jones posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
Tori was such a lovely and happy person, always spreading cheer to everyone with her beautiful smile.
She will truly be missed by all who knew her. She will always be in your heart and will be smiling down on her family.
Penny Jones
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Vera posted a condolence
Monday, September 14, 2020
Denny and kids, you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult of times. Please know that I am holding you all close in my heart. Tori will be with you all, every day, she is not far. God's Blessings to you all.
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The Tobias Family posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, September 14, 2020
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So sorry for your loss ... keeping your entire family in our Thoughts & Prayers during this very difficult time.Just remember to hold all of your precious memories near in your heart and always remember she is watching down over you.God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, nor sun without rain but he did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears and light for the way.
Love,
Todd, Lesa, Natasha & Jon and Kyle
Please hold this poem near and dear to your hearts and let it help provide you with Strength & Comfort.
WHEN I MUST LEAVE YOU
For my sake and in my name
Live on and do all things the same.
When I must leave you for a little while,
Please go on bravely with a gallant smile
And for my sake and in my name,
Live on and do all things the same
Spend not your life in empty days,
But fill each waking hour in useful ways-
Reach out your hand in comfort and in cheer,
And I in turn will comfort you and hold you near.
By Helen Steiner Rice
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Dayle & Donna Zehr posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, September 14, 2020
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Sending our sympathy in the passing of Tori. Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Dayle & Donna
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Carolyn Howes posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, September 14, 2020
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I was so sad to hear about Tori, Dennis. She always brought a shine with her when she came into the bank. Thoughts and prayers with you and the family.
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The family of Victoria Ruth Hainer-Carnegie uploaded a photo
Monday, September 14, 2020
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